Monday, 18 July 2011

Big/ Small Brother/Sister.

A few weeks ago, in the sticky heat of France, my boyfriend and I have an argument. Over Big Brother. Usually, I discard this TV as I don't care about it enough to debate about it on a regular basis. I have no problem with anyone watching it or it. I however, personally would rather spend my hours doing other activities... I say. 'Trash' tv, has come about in waves more so in the 21st Century then ever before. Our celebrity culture enhances this in public media, especially among talk shows, soaps and predominantly, reality tv. I myself am not a vast reality tv viewer, but occasionally enjoy the quick indulgence in 'The Hills' if I'm particularly in the mood. I'm sure most tv owners, and especially teenagers, do religiously watch something of the sort every week. I don't know what really makes me enjoy it, since my interests have no relation to any subject matter on the show. I guess I'm just nosey, and enjoy getting caught up in a way more dramatically enhanced and a fake tan overload of escapism. I enjoy being able to compare my life and feel relativity happy with my lot. Despite feeling sad for Lauren and all her cat fights with her long lost friends and love of her life, left alone in her wealthy apartment with only her friend working at 'Teen vogue' to comfort her. My argument, however is The Hills is so script written, it feels like a soap. It is aimed directly to my teenage self and gender, targeting at general issues, all us girls cry over. Boys and clothes. Oh, how very shallow we all are!

Big Brother however, is differently marketed. Whereas the celebrities, like Paris are made famous from their labels or clothes and wealth, Big Brother promotes generally average citizens from Britain to take part in a room for three or so months. They are encouraged to dress up and take part in all sorts of activities that daily life outside the house would not promote. Having watched a number of episodes on and off, I could see the attraction in Big Brother if you're bored. Or if Russell Brand is on, or even a saucy love affair is brimming. But the general housemates consist of cat fighting women and generally unhinged people (the whole point of the program.) Not to say that there have been some actual nice housemates in the past. But to have just 'nice' housemates would make it very boring.

What encouraged my interest in my boyfriend's love with Big Brother, was his absolute, die-hard love with film. He can be very critical over art and culture, that I myself have enjoyed thoroughly, but nonetheless, I absolutely respect his opinion and taste. His knowledge shows years of pouring through his books and his DvD collection says more than I can express. His has more Dvds on his shelf than any of the film students at the numerous universities I've met. But to express such an interest puzzled me. To be so ruthless over his analysis over celebrities, film and music I've learnt that he's pretty expressive when it comes to things he loves or hates. So when asking (pretty passionately on my side) why an earth he likes to waste his time watching Big Brother rather than writing about all his cool avant-garde movie obsessions, he shrugged. But that's what explained it to me. We have no idea why we enjoy trash tv. It's a pure indulgence, that at the very heart of it is entertainment. It doesn't have a plot or meaning, no movement or particular cause, even my relatives tuned in, excited at the prospect of seeing Joe from S Club (my child hood icon) explain her aggressive behaviour to the viewers.


He will never enjoy The Hills like I did. But I will never enjoy Big Brother. It's a matter of taste. But I do ensure, that we will never understand why Lauren Conrad is famous, publishing self help books and bags. Or why those twins, had a moment of fame on Richard and Judy, unaware of what people and magazines were truly thinking. Everyone would have forgotten most winners and housemates over the years. But I guess that's the idea, something to engage in with fellow teenagers or grandmothers about the love affair, or the gigantic fight, that girl from Hearsay had with the rapper from the 90's. ho hum.

Sunday, 10 July 2011

There Is a Garden in Her Face.

Maybe it's just the internet and it's base but facebook and social networking has had a sudden wave over myself in ways that I always anticipated.
The time when Facebook becomes a chore of boredom and anguish only makes me resentful of it's purpose. What is it's appeal when I consistently see everyone moaning and having tantrums over banal things? People can be rude. People can make you angry. But I'm bored of hearing and reading the same 'status updates' from the four hundred or so people, half of which I no longer know.
If I deleted you on Facebook, despite us having not talked once in over four years, it would become a social offence. A literally middle finger to you for not owing the respect for maintaining your friendship through a screen. It's frustrating and yet I still feel compulsed to check upon strangers profiles. The unsaid pattern of Facebook stalking. Everyone does it with a few spare minutes. That's one of Facebook's appeals.
So tempted to delete, and yet there are very few who do.